Saturday, November 26, 2011

The Lila & Delilah BIRTHDAY BASH...and you're invited!


My dearest readers,


My good friend and wonderful author, Delilah Marvelle, and I have the same birthday---November 28th. And in case you didn't notice, our names are pretty similar, too.  In fact, there are so many freaky similarities between us, it's unbelievable.  I seriously adore her!  And I love her books! 


On Monday November 28th we've decided to throw a DOUBLE birthday bash right here!  Oh, but that's not all.  WE'RE THE ONES GIVING OUT THE GIFTS!


There will be prizes . . . And Delilah will be unveiling her brand new book trailer to her fabulous new series


Now dash off and find something fabulous to wear.  ;)   And we'll see you at our soiree Monday!


Hugs,
Lila XO

Sunday, November 13, 2011

We have a winner!!





A big congratulations to the winner of the next lovely Glass Necklace (purchased in Venice, Italy)!



Sebrina C


Please email me HERE or through my WEBSITE with your snail mail address and choice of color. 



I'll be giving away the final necklace, soon.  Stay tuned for details!

Hugs,
Lila

Monday, November 7, 2011

Step with me into Pompeii!!

Dearest Readers,

I'm delighted to share my pictures of Pompeii with you!  It was my second time visiting this ancient, doomed yet utterly fascinating city, and there's still so much more to discover.  

The excavation of Pompeii continues. I won't get into a lot the history of Pompeii, but as you'll see, these people lived just as you and I.  

They had homes.  Entertainment.  Shops.  Sewers!!  And water pipes alongside the roads were also discovered.  (They were made of lead.  The lead in the pipes that brought water throughout the city no doubt contributed to the reduced life expectancy of these people.)  It's estimated that the city was built around the 8th or 9th century BC.  And it soon became a thriving metropolis. 


Sewers discovered at Pompeii



Lead water pipes at Pompeii
 


Road
The small white pieces of marble reflects in the dark allowing you to see the road at night.




Just to give you an idea of the size of Pompeii today, here is an aerial view.


  
THE TRAGEDY

It's unknown exactly which day, but one day in the latter part of 79 AD, the volcano, Mount Vesuvius (thought to be extinct), shortly after midday, erupted to life.  

Why didn't people leave immediately?  Because over the next 48 hours the volcano had appeared to have calmed down.  Many people stayed behind, refusing to evacuate, because they thought they were safe.
But Mount Vesuvius wasn't done.

 Within 2 days of its awakening, all hell broke loose.  




Suddenly, and with intense fury, it spewed toxic gases and poured molten lava, destroying Pompeii, its people and all forms of life for miles and miles around.  

The flames from the volcano shot high into the sky, but it was the black smoke it emitted that blocked out the sun.




Adding to the apocalyptic scene, were the earthquakes and massive tidal waves the volcano incited.

This went on for 3 days.  

Then came the silence.  

Buried under 15 to 20 feet of ash---Pompeii was captured in a moment in time.


Area affected by the eruption of MT. VESUVIUS



Allow me to show you only a *very* small portion of this incredible ancient city.  NOTE:  YOU CAN CLICK ON THE IMAGES FOR A LARGER VIEW



The Cemetery  
(Below) For those who died before the destruction of the city. This is where they buried their dead.


The Bakery



Men's Forum Baths (Below)
 Sadly, the women didn't get anything this fancy.





Interior of some of the Houses


Dining Room (Below)
Another Dining Room (Below)



Kitchen (Below)
 



Courtyard with Doghouse (Below)



On the ground outside the front entrance of one of the homes is this mosaic of a dog with the inscription that when translated means "Beware of Dog" (Below) Unfortunately the inscription is cut out of my photo).




The Red-Light District in Pompeii

In need of a prostitute?  

It is the oldest profession, after all.  And Pompeii definitely had its share.

There were *many* brothels in Pompeii.  In fact, it's estimated that there was one brothel per one thousand people.  Below are erotic frescoes discovered in one of the brothels we visited in Pompeii.  You can click on them if you'd like to see a larger view.  They're incredible.  Were they there for inspiration?  Or were they some type of menu---"I'd like to do that one, please."  ;) 

Whatever the answer, they prove no matter what, people are people.  They don't change. :)

Warning: Graphic frescoes of sexual positions.







How did you know you were in the brothel district?  
Well, by the giant penis carved into the wall, of course.  (Below)



Inside the brothel...you need a bed.  This is a typical room.  There would have been a mattress on the stone bed.  


The People

When excavation started in Pompeii, it didn't take long to find bodies. They are now forever preserved by the ash. I only photographed a few of the victims of Mt. Vesuvius (the last five pics here).  I included these others to give you a glimpse of the enormity of lives lost.

As you will see, many died covering their noses and mouths against the gas and ash.








Female Victim 



Closeup on Female Victim--
As you can see, she was pregnant.


Giveaway: Another beautiful glass necklace purchased in Venice, Italy!  Open WORLDWIDE.
RULES for the Glass Necklace from Venice:

To win you must:

1. Leave a meaningful comment.

2. You MUST be a follower/subscriber of Lila DiPasqua's blog (through Google Friend Connect).

3. Must be at least 18 years of age.


Contest for the Glass Necklace from Venice ends Saturday Nov. 12th 2011. Winner will be selected at random on Sunday Nov. 13th, 2011.

I hope you enjoyed my tour of Pompeii.  :)

Hugs,
Lila

 

Sunday, November 6, 2011

We have a winner!


Mr. D here!  Congratulations to Mr. Romain's winner!

DEBBY (debby236)!

The winner of a signed copy of SEASON FOR TEMPTATION.


Please contact my lovely wife HERE and provide your snail mail address.
Thanks, everyone for joining in the fun! See you all December 1st with another RH!

Mr. D

Friday, November 4, 2011

Technical Difficulties! %$#@!

Dearest Readers,

I had every intention of posting my pics of Pompeii today----and giving away another beautiful glass necklace, but I've had some technically difficulties in downloading the photos.

I'll be doing the giveaway on Monday, instead! :)

In the meantime, I'm hosting no less than THREE fabulous giveaways--going on right now:

1. HERE
2. HERE
3. HERE

On a completely random, irrelevant note, these coffee signs made me LOL.  I hope they make you laugh, or at the very least, smile.  :)




Have a great weekend!

Hugs,
Lila

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

My Guest, Mr. Romain!


Mr. DiPasqua: Hi folks! I'm thrilled to be back here today on my lovely wife's blog with another Romance Husband.  Please help me welcome Mr. Romain! Can you tell us who you’re married to and what she writes?

Mr. Romain:  I’m married to Theresa Romain, author of romance novels set during the Regency (1811-1820). Her debut, SEASON FOR TEMPTATION, was published last month.


Mr. DiPasqua: Your wife’s fans would like to know the RH (Romance Husband) behind the author better. Can you tell us a little bit about yourself? Scholar? Athlete? Businessman? Artist?

Mr. Romain:  I studied music and history in college, and I’ve played the French horn professionally for years. But that’s a hobby at this point. My career is in technology. I develop products for a manufacturer of data storage products (like external hard drives).


Mr. DiPasqua: Where did you and your wife meet? What convinced you that she was THE ONE?

Mr. Romain:  We met when we were both graduate students in history. I was studying in the TA office—a small room shared by several graduate teaching assistants—when she stopped by to visit another TA. I thought she was cute so I kept glancing up from my book to check her out. Unfortunately, she thought I was glaring at her.

After she left I asked the other TA about her. I suspected (and hoped) that word of my interest would get back to Theresa. Sure enough: a few days later Theresa stopped by the office pretending to look for her friend. In reality, she knew I’d be the only one there. We talked for a while and realized that we were both fascinating people, :) so we made plans to go out.

A few days later we had our first date. We played trivia in a bar, and she wowed me with her knowledge of the bones in the human body. That’s when I started to wonder if she was the one. But I knew she was THE ONE a couple months later when I was helping her study for a class. The fact that we could make each other laugh with Civil War-themed jokes made it clear I had found someone truly unique and ideally suited for me.


Mr. DiPasqua: That's a great story! Where were you when she got THE CALL from her agent/editor? What was your reaction when she told you she’d sold her first book?

Mr. Romain:  I was at work. She called to tell me the news, and I was thrilled for her because I knew this is the career she wanted and that was a big step towards that goal. But there was still a lot of uncertainty, too, since we didn’t know what the terms of the contract would be and she didn’t yet have an agent. Over the next few weeks she got an agent and the contract was negotiated, and each of those moments seemed almost as significant as the THE CALL itself.


Mr. DiPasqua: Is the hero in your wife’s last book:

a) Just like you;
b) The opposite of you;
c) You wish it were you;
d) More like Mr. May in the NYC Firefighter calendar.

Mr. Romain:  I think James, the hero of SEASON FOR TEMPTATION, is more like me than not, but he wasn’t modeled after me. What I like about James is that he acts realistically and with good intentions. In some romances, the conflict seems contrived, or could easily be resolved by open communication. In SEASON FOR TEMPTATION, James behaves the only way he can given his situation, his sense of honor, and the expectations of Regency society.


Mr. DiPasqua: On your first date with your wife, were you most like:

a) Prince Charming;
b) Prince (bad boy) Harry;
c) The Artist formally known as Prince;
d) Prince, the family pet.

Mr. Romain:  “A” on the first date. “B” on the second date. No further explanation will be forthcoming.


Mr. DiPasqua:  There is a great story behind that answer :)... Nowadays when you hear the word “ball” do you immediately think:

a) Baseball
b) Basketball
c) An uncontrollable weeping reaction of fans upon meeting your wife in person?
d) A gathering of lords and ladies.


Mr. Romain:  I think of playing catch with our young daughter, Little Miss R. And basketball. I’m a big fan of college basketball and always make at least two brackets for the NCAA tournament (hedging my bets).


Mr. DiPasqua: How long have you been a RH? (Romance Husband). What advice would you give new RH’s about what you’ve learned being married to a romance author? What should a new RH do or not do when his wife is under deadline? 

Mr. Romain:  About three years, I guess. That’s when she first revealed her Top Secret work in progress (she wrote about ¼ of the book before she told me anything about it) and her ambitions for a bold new career choice. I was surprised, but after I read what she’d written I knew she’d be a great success and encouraged her to go for it.

My advice is to be encouraging without offering unsolicited advice. If she asks you to read her work, you should do it. And don’t delay. Offer constructive suggestions if you can, but be aware that even a gentle comment could easily be misconstrued as criticism, so tread carefully. An author’s work is deeply personal, so it’s hard for them not to be a little sensitive about it.
If she’s under a deadline, leave her alone.

Mr. DiPasqua: Okay, you know I have to go there . . . What’s your response when asked, “So where does your wife get the inspiration for her love scenes?” (Usually by a guy smirking.)

Mr. Romain:  Well, (smirk), you know, (wink), research is an important part of writing a novel. (Nudge, nudge.)


Mr. DiPasqua: LOL ... Which character in your wife’s books would she say most resembles you and/or your personality? 

Mr. Romain:  She would probably say mostly James.

Theresa adds: both James and Mr. R have a quirky sense of humor. That’s an essential in any hero, whether real or fictional! James is also comfortable being himself, and he tries to do the right thing—also very much like Mr. R.

HOWEVER…there’s an important scene in the book that takes place at a ball, and we see that James likes to dance. Mr. R does not like to dance. Mr. R would barely even dance with me at our wedding.

Overall, James is a lot more outgoing and smart-mouthed than Mr. R is. So in some ways, Mr. R might be more like the heroine, Julia, who’d do anything to help her family and who is hungry all the time. Or like Julia’s stepsister, Louisa, who’d rather spend time with a book than a crowd of people.

I guess there are bits of Mr. R—and of other people I love—in all my characters.


Mr. DiPasqua: I like that answer, Mrs. Romain! Now then, Mr. Romain, tell me something about your wife her fans would be surprised to learn.

Mr. Romain:  Her first book was not a novel, but a biography of a silent film actress. Theresa loves old movies and is extremely knowledgeable about them.

Also, she can lick her own elbows even though that’s supposed to be impossible.


Mr. DiPasqua: This has be a lot of fun! You’ve been a great sport! One last question: What would you like us to know about your wife’s latest or upcoming release? 


Mr. Romain:  I thought SEASON FOR TEMPTATION was funny and smart, and I’m hardly the target audience. (Have you seen how pink the cover is?) The book has gotten some great reviews, too, so I’m not the only one who loved it.

Here’s the back cover copy:

TWO SISTERS…

Julia Herington is overjoyed when her stepsister, Louisa, becomes engaged—to a viscount, no less. Louisa’s only hesitation is living a life under the ton’s critical gaze. But with his wry wit and unconventional ideas, Julia feels James is perfect for Louisa. She can only hope to find a man like him for herself. Exactly like him, in fact…

ONE CHOICE…

As the new Viscount Matheson, James wished to marry quickly and secure his title. Kind, intelligent Louisa seemed a suitable bride… Until he met her stepsister. Julia is impetuous—and irresistible. Pledged to one sister, yet captivated by another, what is he to do? As Christmas and the whirl of the London season approach, James may be caught in a most scandalous conundrum, one that only true love, a bit of spiritous punch—and a twist of fate—will solve…

Mr. Romain:  And here are some of those great reviews I mentioned:

“Give in to temptation–treat yourself to Theresa Romain’s delightfully witty debut.”
—Sally MacKenzie, USA Today bestselling author of the Naked Nobles series

“Hilarious and utterly adorable. Theresa Romain’s brilliant debut manages to be both passionate and just plain fun.”—Courtney Milan, New York Times bestselling author of PROOF BY SEDUCTION and UNLOCKED

“This delicious debut is Regency romance at its best — rich narrative, accurate historical details and interesting characters. Romain is definitely an author to watch.” —RT Book Reviews, 4 stars

“Season for Temptation was an absolute delight to read, and is one of my favorite books of the year. It has it all – witty dialogue, amusing circumstances, charming characters and a perfect romance. I can’t wait for Ms. Romain’s next book.” –Rakehell.com


Mr. Romain:  We recently learned that Theresa’s second book was accepted for publication. It’s called SEASON FOR SURRENDER and will come out in October 2012.


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GIVEAWAY:

Giving away a signed copy of Theresa Romain’s historical romance debut, SEASON FOR TEMPTATION. (open WORLDWIDE!)


RULES:

To win you must:

1. Ask a question or leave a meaningful comment.

2. You MUST be a follower/subscriber of Lila DiPasqua's blog (through Google Friend Connect).

3. Must be at least 18 years of age.

4. Winner will be selected at random on SUNDAY November 6, 2011.

Mr. DiPasqua:  Thanks again for chatting with me, Mr. Romain!  Okay folks, see you all next month! Now let's hear your questions or comments.  :)